Relationship lessons I have learned throughout the years.
When you meet someone and they show you their true colors, don't try to repaint them.
When you try to save a toxic relationship or an abusive person, that is called a trauma response.
Your relationship doesn't need to make sense to anyone except you and your partner.
It's a relationship, not a community project.
Always believe people when they show you who they truly are.
Many times what we call "Giving people the benefit of the doubt" is our way of disrespecting our own boundaries with a delusional belief that they will change.
Always pray to God for guidance in your relationship.
Always having effective communication in crucial.
Communication is more than talking on the phone for countless hours at night before you decide to fall asleep.
Its the quality of the conversation that truly matters.
If your absence doesn't affect them, then your presence never mattered.
The moment when you start to wonder if you deserve better.. You do.
A person's morals, standards and mindset will be the qualities that will be raising your children. Those are the things that will make them a good spouse and parent. Not their looks, so choose wisely.
Pursue a relationship with someone that knows the smallest details about you. Like the time you wake up, how you like your coffee, your favorite smell, your love language, what movies make you cry.
Never settle for the bare minimum.
Take my advice and stop crossing oceans for people who wouldn't jump over a puddle for you.
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